What a 3-year old teaches grown ups about gratitude

Lessons about gratitudeI just returned from a trip where I met my cousin’s 3-year old daughter Zia for the first time. Upon my arrival the family gathered for dinner at a local restaurant and while we were all busy chatting Zia raised her hands up in the air and called out “highlights.

Highlights? With the exception of her parents, the adults at the table pondered “what are highlights?”

It turns out that every night at dinner time, Zia and her parents each share the highlights of their day. What a wonderful tradition to instill in a child at a young age. And, it’s obviously become one that Zia loves to participate in and wanted to share with her relatives.

In most cases, Zia’s highlights described those things that happened throughout her day. As we went around the table it became clear that highlights were strongly related to the things we are grateful for. And, while she listened to others express their highlights, Zia inevitably chimed in with “that was going to be my highlight too.

Far be it from anyone around the table to deny her the opportunity to share in their highlight. She brought sheer joy and smiles to each of our faces as well as made us feel more closely connected. Not to mention, she got us all thinking – thinking about our day and what brought us joy.

From being grateful that family was gathered together to acknowledging that the best part of her day was picking worms in the garden with her cousin, Zia opened our eyes to looking at the little things in life. She taught us the value of taking time each day to reflect on what we’ve done and express our highlights.

Leave it to an adorable 3-year old to teach grown ups about gratitude. Thank you Zia. Have you learned anything from a 3-year old in your life?

What were the highlights of your day today? Please share them in the comments section below. I’d love to hear from you.

Debra Jason

Marketing & writing with heart, not hype at at The Write Direction
A recipient of the “Creative Person of the Year” award, Debra educates and empowers creative solopreneurs and enthusiastic business owners to create a lifestyle business that provides them with the flexibility, fun and freedom to do what they love. She also inspires you to communicate your marketing message in a way that captivates and converts your prospects into loyal, raving fans - even if you have been struggling with how to transform your ideas into words in the past.


  1. Cute article, Debra. We can learn a lot from the innocence of kids. Adults should pay more attention.


  2. Mike Moran says:

    My highlight today was reading your article!

  3. Carla Watkins Sanford says:

    Thanks for sharing that, Deborah. That was also my highlight of the day! Sometimes we get so bogged down with “things” that we forget to be grateful. God has blessed my life in so many ways and I am always and forever grateful to Him. My family and friends bless me every day. I am grateful to be here. This article made me realize how lucky I am. What a precious little girl.

    • You’re welcome @Carla. I am so grateful for the relationships I have. I consider myself rich in friendships & treasure my family dearly. Zia is precious and definitely brought an awareness to all the grown ups at the dinner table that night – reminding them that there are highlights to each day. 🙂

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